Tag: Recommendation

The Smashing Pumpkins – Denver – October 27, 2026

Great show. 10/10.
Highly recommended

From Google AI:
The Smashing Pumpkins performed at Ball Arena in Denver, Colorado on October 27, 2026, as part of The Rats in a Cage Tour. 

Set 1: Mellon Collie and the Infinite Sadness (Front-to-Back)

  1. 1979
  2. Bullet With Butterfly Wings
  3. Cupid de Locke
  4. Porcelina of the Vast Oceans
  5. Jellybelly
  6. Bodies
  7. Galapogos
  8. Thirty-Three
  9. Tonight, Tonight
  10. Here Is No Why
  11. To Forgive
  12. Fuck You (An Ode to No One)
  13. Zero
  14. Muzzle
  15. By Starlight
  16. Mellon Collie and the Infinite Sadness

Set 2: Career Hits & Deep Cuts

  1. Sojourner
  2. Edin
  3. Pentagrams
  4. Disarm
  5. Ava Adore
  6. War Dreams of Itself
  7. Mayonaise
  8. Black Stars
  9. As Rome Burns
  10. Today
  11. Cherub Rock
  12. Jesus Is the Sun
  13. The Everlasting Gaze
  14. Superchrist

A Thousand Forms of Fear – Recovery Phrase

My only way to deal with what I deemed an attack (and I might deem anything an attack in those days) was to attack more aggressively in return. The level of hostility in my offensive depended on my level of fear. Fear of being caught, fear of having to tell the truth, fear of being exposed as the lying, cheating fraud I was. But it was the fear of showing my true heart, at times either so full it might burst or so empty I could cry, that hounded me most viciously.

There had been a perpetual war between myself and the costume of persona I’d donned as a youngster and then worn my entire life. Petrified that someone might discover who I really was: merely a child inside the body of an adult. A boy playacting as a man. My lifelong hard-ass exterior and, underneath that, ironclad interior were all an intricately constructed, carefully cultivated, and fiercely guarded sham. I was, in reality, driven by what I’d heard referred to in rehab all those years ago as “a thousand forms of fear.” Sadly, somewhere deep in my soul, I knew that was probably me.

Sing Backwards and Weep: A Memoir
Mark Lanegan

Note – Highly recommended book

5 Best Books of 2025

Selections mine, summary via Amazon. In order of publication date.

The Very Heart of It: New York Diaries, 1983-1994
Publication date: June 3, 2025

In 1983, Thomas Mallon was still unknown. A literature professor at Vassar College, he spent his days traveling from Manhattan to campus, reviewing books to make ends meet and searching the city for his own purpose and fulfillment. The AIDS epidemic was beginning to surge in New York City, the ever-bustling epicenter of literary culture and gay life, alive with parties, art, and sex.

Waiting for Britney Spears: A True Story, Allegedly
Publication date: June 10, 2025

America, 2003: A country at war, its shiny veneer beginning to crack. Von Dutch and The Simple Life dominate. And on the cover of every magazine, a twenty-one-year-old pop star named Britney Spears. Tracking her every move for a third-tier gossip rag in Los Angeles was an unknown young writer taking whatever job he could while pursuing his distant literary dreams. He’d instead become an eyewitness to the slow tragedy of a changing nation, represented in spirit by “the coy it-girl at the end of history.”

The Jailhouse Lawyer
Publication date: July 8, 2025

Calvin Duncan was nineteen when he was incarcerated for a 1981 New Orleans murder he didn’t commit. The victim of a wildly incompetent public defense system and a badly compromised witness, Duncan was left to rot in the waking nightmare of confinement. Armed with little education, he took matters into his own hands.

King of Kings: The Iranian Revolution: A Story of Hubris, Delusion and Catastrophic Miscalculation
Publication date: August 5, 2025

On New Year’s Eve, 1977, on a state visit to Iran, President Jimmy Carter toasted Shah Mohammad Reza Pahlavi, King of Kings, Light of the Aryans, Shadow of God on Earth, praising Iran as “an island of stability “ due to “your leadership and the respect and admiration and love which your people give to you.” Iran had the world’s fifth largest army and was awash in billions of dollars in oil revenues. Construction cranes dotted the skyline of its booming capital, Tehran. The regime’s feared secret police force SAVAK had crushed communist opposition, and the Shah had bought off the conservative Muslim clergy inside the country. He seemed invulnerable, and invaluable to the United States as an ally in the Cold War. Fourteen months later the Shah fled Iran into exile, forced from the throne by a volcanic religious revolution led by a fiery cleric named Ayatollah Khomeini. The ensuing hostage crisis forever damaged America’s standing in the world. How could the United States, which had one of the largest CIA stations in the world and thousands of military personnel in Iran, have been so blind?

The Uncool: A Memoir
Publication date: October 28, 2025

The long-awaited memoir by Cameron Crowe—one of America’s most iconic journalists and filmmakers—The Uncool is a joyful dispatch from a lost world, a chronicle of the real-life events that became Almost Famous, and a coming-of-age journey filled with music legends as you’ve never seen them before.

Dick Cavett’s Criterion Closet Picks

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I guess this is sayonara. By the way, you ask people what sayonara means and they say, “Well, it’s Japanese for goodbye.”
We don’t need this here, but I’m going to say it anyway. Sa-yo-nara. It’s three words. And, brace yourself, it means “if it must be so.” Isn’t that nice? See ya.

See also:
https://www.reddit.com/r/LearnJapanese/comments/a24t19/why_do_most_people_translate_sayonara_as_goodbye/

Check out a couple of his books, highly recommended:
Talk Show: Confrontations, Pointed Commentary, and Off-Screen Secrets

Brief Encounters: Conversations, Magic Moments, and Assorted Hijinks

Philosophical Thoughts on Movie Watching from Siskel and Ebert

Why do we go to the movies in the first place? To have a vicarious experience. For two hours we sit there and if the movie works we stop being ourselves to some degree and become the characters on the screen. And then a review to some degree should talk about whether we enjoyed that vicarious experience. —Roger Ebert…

In a 20/20 interview, he took things even further. “When you disagree on a movie,” Ebert said, “you’re not disagreeing on the movie. You’re disagreeing on who you are. If I don’t like a movie and he does, then I’m not saying that the movie is flawed, I’m saying that he’s flawed.”…

Because the crosstalk was unplanned and unscripted, it occasionally ventured off into fascinating tangents. A Siskel & Ebert movie review could mutate at a moment’s notice into a debate about philosophy, morality, or spirituality. The occasion of the 1987 fantasy film Made in Heaven, about a young man who dies, meets his soulmate in heaven, then must return to Earth to find her when she is reincarnated in a new human body, inspired Roger and Gene to talk less about the movie than their own beliefs about the afterlife.

“I believe,” Siskel revealed, “that if you think of someone, whether it be here or in someplace else, that they come alive. I think the film had a religious content to it. So I found the film beautiful.”
“Yeah, but, of course, whether or not you believe in this doesn’t have anything to do with whether the movie is good or not,” Ebert countered.
“For me, it does,” Siskel responded.
“Okay, well, in that case you think every movie you agree with is good!” Ebert said.
“I have for years,” Siskel replied.

Opposable Thumbs: How Siskel & Ebert Changed Movies Forever
Matt Singer

Note – recommended

The Hot Wing King – Denver Center for the Performing Arts

On the eve of the annual “Hot Wang Festival” in Memphis, Tennessee, Cordell Crutchfield thinks he has finally found a recipe that will land him the coveted title of Hot Wang King. He has assembled a raucous team of sous chefs, comprised of his beau Dwayne and close friends Big Charles and Isom. The four-man team is cooking with plenty of spice and innuendo on prep night until a family emergency thrusts Dwayne’s troubled nephew into the mix. Tensions boil over into heated arguments — and one team member starts messing with Cordell’s secret sauce.  

With the crown, prize money, and their relationship on the line, Cordell and Dwayne are forced to reckon with what it means to be a Black man, a father figure, and part of a loving family. Winner of the 2021 Pulitzer Prize, The Hot Wing King by Katori Hall is a boisterous, in-your-face dramedy that is guaranteed to leave you salivating for a second helping.  

NOTE – Highly Recommended

https://www.denvercenter.org/tickets-events/the-hot-wing-king/

Lollapallooza Oral History

ROB TANNENBAUM (journalist, author) I’m trying not to use the word “lifestyle,” but I guess I have to. This was a lifestyle, and if you went to Lollapalooza what you realized was that the lifestyle was bigger than just, “I’m going to see a band.” It made you feel not just that you were part of the Jane’s Addiction Fan Club, but you were part of the world that embraced, you know, tattoos.

STEPHEN PERKINS (drummer, Jane’s Addiction) I tell you, man, nothing is better than playing to a roomful of people that want your music. They know the lyrics, they’re there for you. There’s a union. And Perry, he’s a shaman when he’s up there. You can go into the room and let him take you somewhere.

JIMMY CHAMBERLIN (drummer, Smashing Pumpkins) Mike D was instrumental in teaching the Tibetan monks how to play basketball. It was so out of their wheelhouse and something that they could kind of latch onto. They were all pretty athletic guys and they actually got pretty good at it. By the end they had a pretty good scrimmage team!

Lollapalooza: The Uncensored Story of Alternative Rock’s Wildest Festival
Richard Bienstock, Tom Beaujour
Note – Recommended Book

LOLLAPALOOZA 1994 DATES: JULY 7–SEPTEMBER 5

MAIN STAGE: Smashing Pumpkins, Beastie Boys, George Clinton and the P-Funk Allstars, the Breeders, A Tribe Called Quest, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, L7, Boredoms (first half), Green Day (second half)

SECOND STAGE: Flaming Lips, the Verve, Guided by Voices, the Frogs, Shudder to Think, Luscious Jackson, the Boo Radleys, Lambchop, Girls Against Boys, Stereolab, various

Why Do Some Songs Sound Different on the Radio?

The first issue was deciding on the right radio mix. By the time a song is played on the radio, it may have undergone several transformations from the album version. This is why radio listeners often have the confusing experience of buying a CD and thinking, “This sounds different from the radio.” It is different—sometimes dramatically so. If the same song is played on a variety of radio formats, there may be several mixes: an alternative mix with louder guitars and drums, a pop mix with friendlier guitars and more vocals, an acoustic mix, a dance mix, and so on. The mix engineers all have distinct sounds. It’s not unusual for the alternative-rock radio mix to be done by one engineer and the pop mix by someone else. Plus, the alternative-rock mix by engineer A may be scrapped, and engineer B may be called in to redo it. The competition is fierce, and mix engineers love to snatch a song away from one of their rivals and remix it.

So You Wanna Be a Rock & Roll Star: How I Machine-Gunned a Roomful Of Record Executives and Other True Tales from a Drummer’s Life
Jacob Slichter

NOTE – Recommended book.

The Lehman Trilogy – Denver Center Performing Arts

Winner of the 2022 Tony Award for Best Play!

Hailed as “a genuinely epic production” by The New York Times (original New York run), The Lehman Trilogy follows three German-Jewish immigrant brothers, and their descendants, as they navigate fire, flood, war, and panic to build a financial behemoth that changed America.

In 1847, the Lehman brothers open a modest clothing shop in Alabama. But they have big dreams. They evolve as new opportunities arise. They capitalize on railroads, oil booms, personal computers, and, eventually, capital itself. They become so intertwined with the U.S. government, and in the daily lives of millions of stakeholders, that some begin to believe that Lehman Brothers, the institution, is too big to fail.

This extraordinary feat of storytelling uses only three actors to trace 163 years of family history and business. Until one day, in 2008, when it all comes crashing down…

DCPA

Highly Recommended.

5 Best Movies of 2023

No order. Selections mine, summary via IMDB

Beau is Afraid
Following the sudden death of his mother, a mild-mannered but anxiety-ridden man confronts his darkest fears as he embarks on an epic, Kafkaesque odyssey back home.

The Holdovers
A cranky history teacher at a remote prep school is forced to remain on campus over the holidays with a troubled student who has no place to go.

Talk to Me
When a group of friends discover how to conjure spirits using an embalmed hand, they become hooked on the new thrill, until one of them goes too far and unleashes terrifying supernatural forces.

Little Richard: I am Everything
The life and career of Little Richard, the one-of-a-kind rock ‘n’ roll icon who shaped the world of music.

Barbie
Barbie suffers a crisis that leads her to question her world and her existence.

Best Books I Read in 2023 that Weren’t Published in 2023

No order. Selections mine, blurbs via Amazon.

William James: In the Maelstrom of American Modernism
Robert D. Richardson
Often cited as the “father of American psychology,” William James was an intellectual luminary who made significant contributions to at least five fields: psychology, philosophy, religious studies, teaching, and literature.

A member of one of the most unusual and notable of American families, James struggled to achieve greatness amid the brilliance of his theologian father; his brother, the novelist Henry James; and his sister, Alice James. After studying medicine, he ultimately realized that his true interests lay in philosophy and psychology, a choice that guided his storied career at Harvard, where he taught some of America’s greatest minds. But it is James’s contributions to intellectual study that reveal the true complexity of man.

Blood and Thunder
Hampdon Sides
In the summer of 1846, the Army of the West marched through Santa Fe, en route to invade and occupy the Western territories claimed by Mexico. Fueled by the new ideology of “Manifest Destiny,” this land grab would lead to a decades-long battle between the United States and the Navajos, the fiercely resistant rulers of a huge swath of mountainous desert wilderness.

At the center of this sweeping tale is Kit Carson, the trapper, scout, and soldier whose adventures made him a legend. Sides shows us how this illiterate mountain man understood and respected the Western tribes better than any other American, yet willingly followed orders that would ultimately devastate the Navajo nation. Rich in detail and spanning more than three decades, this is an essential addition to our understanding of how the West was really won.

Off the Rails: Aboard the Crazy Train in the Blizzard of Ozz
Rudy Sarzo
A fellow musician’s interesting insight into the beginning of Ozzy Osbourne s solo career and his relationship with Sharon Osbourne. This exciting biography also clears a lot of misinformation and bogus theories circulating around the late, great, guitar virtuoso Randy Rhoads’ life and death. Written by journeyman rock bassist Rudy Sarzo, this is a first hand account of Rudy’s experience on the road with Ozzy and his Blizzard of Ozz band.

Acid for the Children
Flea
In Acid for the Children, Flea takes readers on a deeply personal and revealing tour of his formative years, spanning from Australia to the New York City suburbs to, finally, Los Angeles. Through hilarious anecdotes, poetical meditations, and occasional flights of fantasy, Flea deftly chronicles the experiences that forged him as an artist, a musician, and a young man. His dreamy, jazz-inflected prose makes the Los Angeles of the 1970s and 80s come to gritty, glorious life, including the potential for fun, danger, mayhem, or inspiration that lurked around every corner. It is here that young Flea, looking to escape a turbulent home, found family in a community of musicians, artists, and junkies who also lived on the fringe. He spent most of his time partying and committing petty crimes. But it was in music where he found a higher meaning, a place to channel his frustration, loneliness, and love. This left him open to the life-changing moment when he and his best friends, soul brothers, and partners-in-mischief came up with the idea to start their own band, which became the Red Hot Chili Peppers.

How the Word is Passed
Clint Smith
Beginning in his hometown of New Orleans, Clint Smith leads the reader on an unforgettable tour of monuments and landmarks—those that are honest about the past and those that are not—that offer an intergenerational story of how slavery has been central in shaping our nation’s collective history, and ourselves.

It is the story of the Monticello Plantation in Virginia, the estate where Thomas Jefferson wrote letters espousing the urgent need for liberty while enslaving more than four hundred people. It is the story of the Whitney Plantation, one of the only former plantations devoted to preserving the experience of the enslaved people whose lives and work sustained it. It is the story of Angola, a former plantation-turned-maximum-security prison in Louisiana that is filled with Black men who work across the 18,000-acre land for virtually no pay. And it is the story of Blandford Cemetery, the final resting place of tens of thousands of Confederate soldiers.

Humankind: A Hopeful History
Rutger Bregman
If there is one belief that has united the left and the right, psychologists and philosophers, ancient thinkers and modern ones, it is the tacit assumption that humans are bad. It’s a notion that drives newspaper headlines and guides the laws that shape our lives. From Machiavelli to Hobbes, Freud to Pinker, the roots of this belief have sunk deep into Western thought. Human beings, we’re taught, are by nature selfish and governed primarily by self-interest.

But what if it isn’t true? International bestseller Rutger Bregman provides new perspective on the past 200,000 years of human history, setting out to prove that we are hardwired for kindness, geared toward cooperation rather than competition, and more inclined to trust rather than distrust one another. In fact this instinct has a firm evolutionary basis going back to the beginning of Homo sapiens.

From the real-life Lord of the Flies to the solidarity in the aftermath of the Blitz, the hidden flaws in the Stanford prison experiment to the true story of twin brothers on opposite sides who helped Mandela end apartheid, Bregman shows us that believing in human generosity and collaboration isn’t merely optimistic—it’s realistic. Moreover, it has huge implications for how society functions. When we think the worst of people, it brings out the worst in our politics and economics. But if we believe in the reality of humanity’s kindness and altruism, it will form the foundation for achieving true change in society, a case that Bregman makes convincingly with his signature wit, refreshing frankness, and memorable storytelling.